A wedding is a union of two hearts and a celebration that marks the beginning of a lifetime together. One of the most crucial elements that set the mood and tone for this significant occasion is the music. Choosing the right songs for different wedding moments can elevate the experience for you and your guests, making it memorable and uniquely yours. Here’s a comprehensive guide to creating your wedding song checklist, ensuring every moment is musically encapsulated.
For those looking for inspiration, here’s a handpicked selection of wedding songs by Ryan Grant for a better idea.
How To Pick Your Wedding Songs: A Simple Guide
1. Pre-Wedding Ceremony Songs
Pre-wedding ceremony songs set the atmosphere for your wedding, creating an ambience of anticipation and excitement as guests arrive and take their seats. The selection of these songs is crucial as they help set the tone for the following ceremony.
Generally, these tunes should be soothing, calming, and welcoming, allowing guests to converse easily while waiting for the ceremony to begin.
Here are some tips and ideas for selecting your pre-wedding ceremony music
- Choose Soothing Music: Opt for instrumental pieces or soft, lyrical songs that can play in the background. The music should be unobtrusive, allowing guests to chat comfortably as they await the start of the ceremony.
- Variety: Incorporate a mix of genres and styles to suit different tastes, but keep the overall vibe calm and pleasant. Classical music, soft jazz, acoustic covers of popular songs, or instrumental versions of love songs can work well.
- Personalise Your Playlist: Include songs that are meaningful to you as a couple but are also accessible to your guests. It’s a nice touch for the playlist to reflect your personal story or relationship as long as it maintains a tranquil atmosphere.
- Duration: Plan for at least 30 minutes of music to cover the arrival of all your guests. Some may arrive early, and others just in time, so having a continuous stream of music ensures that everyone is welcomed by the warm atmosphere you’ve created.
2. Ceremony Songs
The Processional and Parent Entrance
The ceremony officially begins with the processional songs, signalling a shift in mood. Select sentimental pieces for the entrance of parents and grandparents, followed by more upbeat tunes for the bridal party’s entrance.
The bride’s processional song, marking her grand entrance, should be bold and memorable, setting her apart from the rest.
Signing of the Register and Hymns
During the ceremony, music for the signing of the register and any hymns should be chosen with care. These songs can range from classical pieces to more contemporary selections, depending on the couple’s preference and the ceremony’s tone.
Recessional Music
The recessional music marks the conclusion of the ceremony, celebrating the newlyweds as they walk down the aisle. This should be a triumphant, joyous piece, reflective of the couple’s excitement and happiness.
3. Reception Songs
Cocktail Hour and Bridal Party Entrance
The reception kicks off with the cocktail hour, setting a light, festive tone before transitioning to the formal dinner. The bridal party entrance song, often upbeat and energetic, announces the start of the celebration and is followed by the grand entrance of the newlyweds, possibly accompanied by a special song or two to make their arrival memorable.
First Dance and Parent Dances
The first dance is a highlight of the reception, an intimate moment shared by the bride and groom. This is followed by the father/daughter and mother/son dances, each requiring a song that reflects their relationship and emotions.
Cake Cutting and Party Songs
The cake cutting represents a playful, sweet moment between the couple, accompanied by an upbeat song. The rest of the evening should feature a mix of music that encourages all guests to hit the dance floor, from timeless classics to current hits, ensuring a lively, unforgettable party.
Bouquet and Garter Toss
For the bouquet and garter toss, choose fun, cheeky songs that add to the light-heartedness of these traditions.
Last Dance
Finally, the last dance song should signal the end of the festivities, chosen to leave a lasting impression and wrap up the night on a high note.
Key Takeaways
Music plays a pivotal role in creating the ambience for your wedding day, from the anticipation of the pre-ceremony to the joyous celebrations of the reception.
Remember, the most important thing is that the music reflects your and your partner’s personalities and relationships. Whether you choose a live band, DJ, or a combination of both, ensure they’re familiar with your chosen songs and are able to deliver the ambience you’re looking for on your special day.